
Hello all, I am Rainey
I was born and raised in Connecticut, U.S.A. I was a victim of polio, but learned that "victim" is a definition, and must never become a state of mind.
I was stricken a week before my third birthday - a present to last a lifetime. I did well for myself and after many operations (nine), was able to walk with a long leg brace and crutches. My last few years have required me to make a major adjustment, as stress and abuse placed upon my shoulders from years of service as surrogate legs has finally confined me to a wheelchair. And, making this situation even more challenging are the many side effects of Post Polio Syndrome.
Life goes on though, and I will never let my disability define the woman I am. Amont the blessings I've received are my two loved and revered adopted daughters from India, my angels. They are my world and my life. Family and friends have been there for me, offering support and love. And new friends, and new love! I enjoy sports, and have a mad passion for soccer and football. My life's dream is to ice-skate some day!
The pace has slowed now, and I still smile, laugh out loud and love humor every day of my life. There's even more time to enjoy the "simple" things - a good sunset, a nice nature walk! (roll). Life has a lot of beauty to offer. We really should - literally - stop and smell the roses.
I have a disability. It does not have me. It never has and never will. People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said - but they will always remember how you made them feel. Life is not measured by how many breaths we take but by how many moments take our breath away. Just because I am disabled, don't expect less of me. Despite the challenges we face, we can still make the most out of life.
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"Ability is what you're capable of doing.
Motivation determines what you do.
Attitude determines how well you do it."
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I AM WOMAN
I AM BEAUTIFUL
I LIKE MYSELF
I AM SMART
I BELIEVE IN MYSELF
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Just because I am disabled don't expect less out of me .
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We are not DISabled - we are differently ABLED
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Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing.
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'Life isn't about how to survive the storm,
but how to dance in the rain.'
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Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
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A smile is a sign of joy.
A hug is a sign of love.
A laugh is a sign of happiness.
And a friend like me…??
............ that's just a sign of good taste!!
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Love is not something we find, love is something we DO
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A friend is always good to have, but a lover's kiss is better than angels raining down on me.
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Women are Angels
And when someone breaks our wings....
We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick...
We are flexible like that ....
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A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge
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In this world where of overrated pleasures, and underrated treasures... I glad there is YOU.
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There is much more to a human being than physical perfection.
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There is a place you can touch a woman that will drive her crazy. Her heart.
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There comes a point in your life when you realize:
Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
There's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.
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I Believe...
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
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I'm an angel, honest! The horns are just there to keep the halo straight
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Ask many of us who are disabled what we would like in life and you would be surprised how few would say, 'Not to be disabled.' We accept our limitations.
- Itzhak Perlman
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I choose not to place "DIS", in my ability.
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It' OK to cry over what we lost yet we must always remember what we still have.
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If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
--Mother Teresa --
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You really never know how STRONG you are .... until being strong is the ONLY choice you have.
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I am disabled not broken I don't need to be fixed.