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From research and owner of Disabilitydates.com it is clear to me that the internet have made dating with a Disability easier,that been said there is questions or issues that can arise when dating online.



The main question that people think about is “How do I tell someone that I have a disability”?

Do they date on disabled-only Websites like Disabilitydates? Do they mention their disability in their personal ads?Choosing whom to tell or not tell is a personal choice. I believe the best approach is to trust your instinct, not your fears. I know several online daters with some type of physical disability or medical condition, and some of them choose to reveal their disability in their profiles and others don’t.



Be clear in your mind of what kind of relationship you are looking for,if indeed you are looking for a long term relationship they are certain facts that you should never withhold from your potential dates.

Let them know what kind of care you need because you are both looking for something that may result in a life long commitment. So holding such information may not benefit you in the long run. You will not only be wasting their time but you would also be wasting your time.

Questions to ask yourself
Who do you need to tell? What do you want to tell them about your disability,and what are you expecting from the person you’re disclosing your status to?When should you tell them? Where is the best place to have this conversation? Why are you telling them?

With my research i have found they are a few misconception`s that people have on people dating with a disability,one being they only date other people with disabilites,this is like saying blondes only date blondes,white people only date other white people.

Every person needs a connection or chemistry to be attracted to one another,a person in a wheelchair is not just attracted to another person in a wheelchair because he/she has a great set of wheels!



This been said they is many people that do date someone with a disability like themselves thinking they will be more accepted by this person and they can relate to them better.

They can belive that a person without a disability would never look their way,which of course is untrue.



What attracts people is confidence – the confidence to show your inner self; that is what’s truly attractive.
The first step you need to take in order to have a love life is to be comfortable about your disability. Accept yourself with your flaws and disabilities. After all, each and every one of us has flaws. No one is perfect.
disabilitydates
Robots help the disabled
Posted November 18, 2010 by disabilitydates
A great piece of news from Canada this week is about research and in Edmonton, Alberta, to support disabled children.

Researchers at the University of Alberta are working with students with disabilities such as cerebral palsy with the aid of robots.

“We are trying to give children an opportunity to experience discovery and manipulation,” said professor Al Cook of the University of Alberta.


“Children who are born with cerebral palsy often have difficulty using their hands so they miss out on all the things that children do with their hands – explore objects, play with objects and manipulate them,” said Proff. Cook, professor of speech pathology and audiology.

“They don’t get to participate or play in those activities so what we’re doing is using robots to help children discover and play and participate rather than just observe.”

Chelsea Hagen, 14, of Edmonton is a student with cerebral palsy. She uses a wheelchair to get around and has extremely limited use of her hands.

In a study conducted by Cook and Kim Adams, assistant professor of assistive technology at the U of A faculty, it was found that the robots, along with a communicative device attached to Hagen’s wheelchair, have helped her learn immensely in school especially learning math.

“It has helped me to do my reading,” Hagen typed into her device.

Hagen said thanks to the device, she is dong “great” in school and loves all her subjects.

The robot is controlled by a device connected to Hagen’s wheelchair – she moves her head to select actions and answers to the communicative device and the robot.

The robot allows her to move objects and measure them – the technology is being called Rehab Dialogue.
SWAYNE
SWAYNE "The Medical Miracle" Live
Posted April 18, 2010 by SWAYNE

Peace everyone.

I just wanted to share my performances with you and encourage someone today. I have had a Trach Tube since 1998, due to 70% throat blockage, Asthma and Chronic Bronchitis. Through it all, I have never stopped performing vocally. I have recorded 9 solo vocal projects, and 2 vocal projects with my family's group. Enjoy!

SONG 1: TIME FOR A CHANGE, SONG 2: TRUE WORD LIVA


NEVER GIVE UP!
ebdotkom
HEALTHCARE REFORM?
Posted January 23, 2010 by ebdotkom

I don't understand why voters don't realize that the HMOs are calling the shots when it comes to our healthcare. They are the ones deciding who lives or dies and the quality of life we have as far as our health is concerned.

For 2010 Medicare has switched my Rx coverage and I had my first refill this week. For years I have been taking a medication that my doctor prescribed I take 2 times a day, but much to my shock my new provider has decided that I should only take it once daily instead. They don't know me and my doctor is the one who best knows my medical needs!

I live in Massachusetts where the winning candidate for Ted Kennedy's seat campaigned primarily against healthcare reform. Oddly enough a poll taken among those who voted for him said healthcare reform did not go far enough, yet the winner opposes it.

Healthcare reform is trying to get the HMOs out from between patients and doctors and stop them from calling the shots as to what your doctor prescribes for you or doesn't.

Can somebody tell me how it is that people are persuaded to vote against their own best interests? For 50 years one party has consistently stymied all attempts to reform healthcare, and the record shows that too many of them leave congress and go to work in cushy jobs in the healthcare or pharmaceutical industries. They take campaign funds from these industries to keep themselves in office and subsequently drug and healthcare costs get higher and higher, less people can afford coverge and the HMOs and drug manufacturers get more and more powerful to the point where legislation was passed a few years ago to keep the government from negotiating lower drug prices for Medicare recipients.

The US is the only developed nation without universal health coverage in spite of being, even in these economic times, the richest country in the world.

What is it about we Americans that makes us so stubborn when it comes to denying quality healthcare to all our fellow citizens while our elected officials and the rich are the only ones who are able to obtain this fundamental need?

We really have to begin to think for ourselves instead of letting the talking heads on TV and radio think for us. A healthy nation is a strong nation!  

dingo

Every story I have heard regarding the hows and whys of what happened to put you in that wheel chair or crutch or struggling to carry four glasses of wine with a plate of mud crab on the lap, every story has been worthy of publishing. They are always incredible experiences, which for many brought them closer to life than they had ever been. I have told that same story so many times that for the last few years I have come to 'embellish' my own. There has been the fighter pilot seat ejection malfunction, the lion tamer falling off the stand above five hungry lions... and the pub story, where I and the maiden had fallen (on bed in prone motion) through three floors of badly dilapidated pub architecture, to be stopped with a sudden ground floor crack that just happened to be my spine voicing a crunch that screamed the sound of colliding neutrons.(very popular after last drinks are called).

In my daytime persona as an Arts teacher in High Schools mainly in remote Australian communities, many Aboriginal communities, the pleasure of these young student minds with their direct questions and truthful 'no holes barred' responses, is refreshing and honest. Whilst the teachers dance around getting to some notion of satisfying that curiosity of what made him a 'parapl...something or other' but at the forefront of investigative journalism high school staffroom style, 'Can he still get it up'. This usually comes out several times during late Friday evening staff drinks sessions which are progressively higher in volume, the more difficult the school, the less funded, the further remote...etc.

So I have come to a time when having repeated the story so many times, I am not the type to carry a ghetto blaster or Dictaphone with the story ready for play-back at the request of a drunken divorcée or inquisitive child. So it has become an adventurous past time to re-invent my sordid past with exciting and at times boring and homely replacement disasters, always trying to out do the last. And I have to say, the oohs, and ahhs are so dick dastardly addictive.

And to all those of you with tragic episodes filled with pain, and to some, like myself - regret.. why not push that beast to the side and enjoy the secret satisfaction of re-invention. I challenge all of you to present here, the most entertaining and extraordinary accounts of how you happened to attain your own personal modifications and figurative updates. 'Disability' is so last season...

 

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