From research and owner of Disabilitydates.com it is clear to me that the internet have made dating with a Disability easier,that been said there is questions or issues that can arise when dating online.
The main question that people think about is “How do I tell someone that I have a disability”?
Do they date on disabled-only Websites like Disabilitydates? Do they mention their disability in their personal ads?Choosing whom to tell or not tell is a personal choice. I believe the best approach is to trust your instinct, not your fears. I know several online daters with some type of physical disability or medical condition, and some of them choose to reveal their disability in their profiles and others don’t.
Be clear in your mind of what kind of relationship you are looking for,if indeed you are looking for a long term relationship they are certain facts that you should never withhold from your potential dates.
Let them know what kind of care you need because you are both looking for something that may result in a life long commitment. So holding such information may not benefit you in the long run. You will not only be wasting their time but you would also be wasting your time.
Questions to ask yourself
Who do you need to tell? What do you want to tell them about your disability,and what are you expecting from the person you’re disclosing your status to?When should you tell them? Where is the best place to have this conversation? Why are you telling them?
With my research i have found they are a few misconception`s that people have on people dating with a disability,one being they only date other people with disabilites,this is like saying blondes only date blondes,white people only date other white people.
Every person needs a connection or chemistry to be attracted to one another,a person in a wheelchair is not just attracted to another person in a wheelchair because he/she has a great set of wheels!
This been said they is many people that do date someone with a disability like themselves thinking they will be more accepted by this person and they can relate to them better.
They can belive that a person without a disability would never look their way,which of course is untrue.
What attracts people is confidence – the confidence to show your inner self; that is what’s truly attractive.
The first step you need to take in order to have a love life is to be comfortable about your disability. Accept yourself with your flaws and disabilities. After all, each and every one of us has flaws. No one is perfect.
Hello,
I am a family studies major and i am permanently disabled. I do not date. I did notice however that there are a number of dating sites available through this page and Marin School. I am writing a paper about people who are disabled (mild-severe) and who have interests in dating and marriage and plan to have families together. would anyone care to respond? I would love to hear positive or negative responses or nuetral responses as well. Personal experience is also great. thank you.
you can also send them to me at dochoa@ksu.edu
A great piece of news from Canada this week is about research and in Edmonton, Alberta, to support disabled children.
Researchers at the University of Alberta are working with students with disabilities such as cerebral palsy with the aid of robots.
“We are trying to give children an opportunity to experience discovery and manipulation,” said professor Al Cook of the University of Alberta.
“Children who are born with cerebral palsy often have difficulty using their hands so they miss out on all the things that children do with their hands – explore objects, play with objects and manipulate them,” said Proff. Cook, professor of speech pathology and audiology.
“They don’t get to participate or play in those activities so what we’re doing is using robots to help children discover and play and participate rather than just observe.”
Chelsea Hagen, 14, of Edmonton is a student with cerebral palsy. She uses a wheelchair to get around and has extremely limited use of her hands.
In a study conducted by Cook and Kim Adams, assistant professor of assistive technology at the U of A faculty, it was found that the robots, along with a communicative device attached to Hagen’s wheelchair, have helped her learn immensely in school especially learning math.
“It has helped me to do my reading,” Hagen typed into her device.
Hagen said thanks to the device, she is dong “great” in school and loves all her subjects.
The robot is controlled by a device connected to Hagen’s wheelchair – she moves her head to select actions and answers to the communicative device and the robot.
The robot allows her to move objects and measure them – the technology is being called Rehab Dialogue.
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