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Back in the early 1960s I had a very memorable Christmas with my family. It was sort of kind of like the movie Christmas story and Ralphie. Back then there was no big lists for Santa as you only asked for one item. You usually got more things but they were things like underwear and clothing. You always got those things does that was when mom would give you what you need to for the upcoming year.
Now this Christmas was starting out just like the other ones as all the boys in the family and my father went to get the Christmas tree. The tree we got was actually too big for the living room so we had to cut some off and my dad put a string in the ceiling to hold it up. Mom was Angry about this but the job of getting the Christmas tree was up to my dad and us boys. There were four of us boys and one sister. So we had a pretty good-sized family.
Now at this time not all stores had a Santa Claus so we went to the one store that had one and I cannot remember the name of the store. Anyhow we stood in line and then it was my turn to talk to Santa. A good thing they didn't have any ramp that we have a leave by as I know I would get kicked download it like in the Christmas story. But when I got up to Santa the thing I asked for was a radio of the short wave type so I can listen to the world. Being able to listen to all the different countries is what I really wanted, so I asked Santa for this and really hoped that I got it. Back then the family did not have much money and no was trying to believe in Santa Claus but I was not holding my breath.
Now leading up to Christmas day all us kids were making gifts for everybody else in the family. At school you were able to buy a small thing to give to your parents. I think the most expensive thing only cost $.25. But we were all having fun putting up the decorations and getting ready for Christmas day. I think that getting ready for Christmas was fun for all of us. I still do like those big balls that were used to have and the bubble lights. And of course we had a manger scene.
Christmas Eve my mom took all his kids to candlelight service at that little Methodist Church there was a few blocks from our house. I enjoyed walking through the snow to get to the church because everything seem so peaceful. And it was always a midnight candlelight service that you went to. Now the street we lived on had a Catholic Church right on the corner so all the Catholic people were going to church also. After church we all went home and we had to get to bed so Santa Claus could come and leave the gifts. He would not leave anything if we were still awake.
The next morning my younger brother and I got up and went out to the living room to see what was under the tree. There were lots and lots of presents that we did go to see whose names were on the packages. And it looks like everybody was getting a lot of stuff. But the rule was no packages could be opened until dad got up. And God for bid if you woke him of before time. When he did finally get up we all have fun opening up our gifts. We all got plenty of clothing socks and underwear the usual stuff. One of my brothers got a camera so he was very happy that I did not see my radio. I did get a few records so I was happy for that.
My dad said there was something in the kitchen with my name on it. So I went into the kitchen and found a package with my name on it which filled me with joy. So I've brought the package back out to the living room so everybody could see it. I opened it up and it was a short wave radio that my father had built for me. I was so happy. I listened to the radio every day for years. I had that radio until I went into the Army in 1972. I wish I knew what happened to it. That was one of the best Christmases I had.
I was taught growing up that cussing was bad, for as long as I've known my parents they hardly cussed and If they did I pointed it out and was complemented on catching them. After all there trying to set me right so who was going to set them right when they swore?? I remember a few times dad swore and watching him swear I could see that It wasn't In him to do so, It was more of a fitting in among his friends I guess. Mom was a little more strict with swearing she just totally disapproved of such lanugage Instead she would swear In a way she though was kosher. She would say things like Gosh hang It, which I found funny untill I realized what it ment.
Over the years I noticed they couldn't bite there tongues like they did when I was young, was it that I was old enuff to swear on my own?? I remember one time I caught my moms ears when I buried a #11 X-Acto blade into my thumb while working on a model, soon as I said It I realized I was In trouble, (use your imagination) She quickly said what did you say as I heard her running towards the kitchen only to see me bleeding all over with a hobby knife hanging out of my thumb. She quickly forgot about what i said and told me to pull the knife out of my thumb and helped me to clean up my mess and fetched me what i needed to fix my thumb. After my thumb was take care of she said she forgave me for swearing as what had happened to me must have really hurt, she then told me next time to bite my tongue or try and focus on saying something else. It worked for awhile till I became a Volunteer Fire fighter, then it was like a no hold bars free for all. I quickly found out firefighters can and will be some of the biggest potty mouths there are, even more so then sailers or anyone in the Navy as we have had numerous guys that where in the service.
I still find it hard to not cuss, even around my son and he's at that age where one has to be careful, I can't count how many times he caught me off guard and even told his mom. But I have no worries there because she doesn't leave much room for improvement, I just can't believe how much she does swear and even more so around my son. I've told her to watch her mouth around him, but she doesn't care every other word out of it is a classic. I'm just glad I don't have to listen to it any more.