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Tonight I am sitting here reading blogs etc... I figure it is about time I Formally introduce myself in a way where my cranial nerves dont get the better of me . The Name Gypsylady < is my Handle </P>
Judy is my name . I also am used to a very outdoors style of life because this is part of my culture Cherokee , in my family I am proudly the last of us doing this . I moved all over in my life bluntly putting it .
My life was and is a conglomoration of roads and turnpikes . This combination of freedom gave me a handle on the roads as Gypsylady it fit and when the shoe fits wear it . Read On
I see a blog here about venting so i'll add my piece lol . Being a Motorcyclist and living out of a backpack and in tents travelling all over the world is a lifestyle I love .
Marriages or Relationships a few years ago I was a victim of Domestic Violence and he tore my heart out literally
Good thing I master in outdoors survival So once again packed up my clothes on my back and wandered out in the woods and pitched tent etc...
Looking back For what it's worth I once was a good wife Things got sour when I found out he was cheating on me and then beating me for confronting him about the issues as we tried seeking counseling etc... Nothing worked but his temper did and his strenghth . I gave up and left . He cheated on me because of my disability as a example or excuse .
Relationships are 2 way streets once again I simply went incognito to save my life and the nickname Gypsy was thrown on me as I travelled all over with my tent and clothes on my back .
To some people this style of living is not kool but for me it is . Now my life is my way and this is all I know . It was fun brewing my sanka coffee or tea and flipping eggs breakfast on my griddle over a mesquite fire . This is what I love about life .
Somehow this Handle gypsylady and sticks and lingers on my body like a old tattoo . No one is perfect but We can do our best to make the moments of life count .
Freedom seems to be part of my life , I mind my own business and care for people more than I do for myself putting others before me as I feel fit .
Now I am at peace and proud of my life I met a lovely man while living in my tent out in a special place I camped alot , This Friend was kind and compassionate Down to earth took us years to actually click being both of us were burned before relationship wise but being Bikers we hit it off and now just cherish eachother , respect eachother and love Motorcycles , life is as I figured it to be once more a lovely mystery from me Gypsy .
Holidays hugs
Sincerely ;
Gypsylady4eva
Thank you txtrulady I just am open and feel it is better getting it off my chest being truthful to everyone about things like Domestic Violence like I said relationships are a 2 way street .
You can see the honesty in my phrases I am a non conflict lady I like peace and harmony .
As a ex victim of such abuse I feel obligated to help other victims . Life is hard enough for so many of us and our support system is not the most helpful with our horrible economy and defeceit / cuts here and there it is overwhelming the way a relationship could go so sour . I think Mankind all could live harmoniously without all sorts of Domestic Violence as the abuse is a topic with so many chapters and styles Some of us victims isolate ourselves in a coocoon and that is no healthy way to live but for some of us it is our survival .
I am just myself a shy woman who is living the best way I can .
God Bless
Sincerely your friend ;
Gypsylady4eva
