Gypsylady4eva's Blogs

Tonight I am sitting here reading blogs etc...  I figure it is about time I Formally introduce myself in a way where my cranial nerves dont get the better of me .  The  Name Gypsylady  < is  my Handle </P>

Judy is my name . I also  am used to  a very  outdoors style of life because this is part of my culture Cherokee , in my family I am proudly the last of  us doing this . I moved all over in my life  bluntly putting it .

  My life was and is a  conglomoration of roads and turnpikes . This  combination of freedom  gave me a  handle on the roads as Gypsylady it fit and  when the shoe fits wear it . Read On

I see a blog here about venting  so i'll add my piece lol .  Being a Motorcyclist and living out of a backpack and in tents  travelling all over the world is  a lifestyle I love .

Marriages or Relationships a few years ago I was a victim of  Domestic Violence and   he  tore my heart out literally 

Good thing I master in outdoors survival  So once again packed up my clothes on my back and  wandered out in the woods  and pitched tent etc...

Looking back For what it's worth  I once was a good wife Things got sour when I found out he was cheating on me and then  beating me for confronting him about the issues as we tried seeking counseling etc... Nothing worked but his temper did and his strenghth . I gave up and left . He cheated on me because of my disability as a example or excuse .  

Relationships are 2 way streets once again I simply went incognito to save my life and the nickname Gypsy was thrown on me as I  travelled  all over with my tent and clothes on my back .

To some people this style of  living is not kool  but for me it is . Now my life is my way and  this is all I know . It was fun  brewing my  sanka coffee or tea  and flipping eggs breakfast on my griddle over a mesquite fire . This is what I love about life .

Somehow this Handle  gypsylady and sticks and lingers on my  body like a old tattoo . No one is perfect but We can do our best to make the  moments of life count .

Freedom seems to be part of my life  , I mind my own business and  care for people more than I do for myself  putting others before me  as I feel fit .

Now I am at peace and  proud of my life  I met a lovely man while living in my tent out in a special place I  camped alot  , This Friend was  kind and  compassionate  Down to earth  took us years to  actually click being both of us were burned  before relationship wise but being Bikers  we hit it off and  now just cherish eachother ,  respect eachother  and love Motorcycles , life is as I figured it to  be once more a lovely mystery  from me Gypsy .

Holidays hugs

Sincerely ;

Gypsylady4eva

I have  rough time as a quad with regulating my body temps  it stinks point blank

Rainey I had to wear socks today     Sis it is plum chilli and dont make sense to me

Being I used to hardly use socks since I cant feel my body from the neck down on the outside

One min I am all zipped up in my sweatshirt and all and then I feel too hot

This weather pattern is driving me  crazy

Forget hot flashes or whatever I usually gripe about  I am just like cooking  right now and I took off my sweatshirt but I got my socks on so I dont get sick lol

All I can say is  my life is looney

This weather  is weird  aint like it was 20 yrs ago

lol

Sincerely ;

Gypsylady4eva

Boy I am sooo glad it is finally Friday .

My Week seemed like a eternity but it all is balancing out .

Sometimes things dont always go as you expected them to but thats life .

Everyday is a blessing to me  because life is so precious .

With that said

Hope you all have a safe blessed lovely weekend

Sincerely ;

Gypsylady4eva

Hi everyone I hope you all had a lovely Thanksgiving and all ...

Lately I been taking  it easy  because I have been having lots of medical problems with my kidneys and bladder . So tonight immediately after dinner I am sitting in my living room and typing you all .

I dont tell people my health problems , I just try not to think of them and I block them out in my mind .

Today while cleaning up my office I founnd a pile of Getwell cards and one in particular stuck .

It was a get well card by my oldest and favorite aunt . I am  in awe of how special my aunt  is to me , she wrote me  absolutely a most memorable set of phrases and lovely words of hope and how strong I am and being able to deal with this SCI I have , SCI injuries are emotionally / physically / devestating to us folks .

SCI injurues are so often unexpeccted and when you come to and face reality you notice your whole life / lifestyle is changed / impaired forever .

I just lived this way most of my life but as I got older the circumstances of our health definitely changes everything in life as we knew it . I was 16 when a car hit my vehicle and broke my neck it was horrible but  2  years later I  was up and walking , Now after  a fatal Motorcycle wreck Again I broke my neck over the 2nd time now and I became incapadcitated . My Mind is still going strong but my body is totally different .

Age has alot to do with life. Arthritis / broken bones and all I am a quadriplegic , I am able to cope with this lifestyle  because I am a psychologist and I got a excellent look on life . No matter how crappy I may feel or mentally be in a dump I think positive and know there is a purpose for my existence . Life aint a bowl of peaches but it could be worse like being  Dead.

I've lived a most wonderful life as crappy as people may think my life is ' I am happy that my inner soul is so Strong Willed . I love Biology and psychology  because i've came to literally thousands of conclusive  or great facts . Most people after a  Devestating accident  would just give up . Let's face it I can not feel anything from my neck down and yet I think this a learning lesson about Not giving up but progressing positively in a slow but precise way to help others with SCI  Injuries .

Life is something Ihave no terms or way's to explain but With God Anything is possible

Without God nothing is possible .

A strong will and positive thinking keep me going . I  love sharing my  professional talent to help other disable people because I am  a  good  professional psychologist . I do all of this free becaue my life is not based on Financial or wealth . I rather help a soul than make money ,  Some  people call me a psychotherapist I just call myself  Judy a caring woman who dedicated my life to helping others. 

I love you all and love to see people happy .

With that said

I am just resting / healing up and taking it easy

Cordially ;

Gypsylady4eva