Feeling helpless from afar

Why do we treat others so bad Is it human nature to do so, Is it something that we are born with? This in ways may reflect on happenings here in the last few weeks so take it however you want, In no way am I pointing fingers at any one person, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

Today I felt helpless, something I don't generally feel, I love to help people no matter how big or small and in what ever way I can. Talking with my sister today she made me cry, something that she doesn't often do. She was telling me as she tells me almost everything that bothers her that she is getting tired of people treating her like the stuff you step on and can't get off very easy. Now I don't know the whole story or what it was that upset her but I do know she takes alot of crap from everyone under her roof. I also know and have seen how her family treats her, her youngest daughter in her 20's does help out around the house, cleaning up after a meal doing dishes as need most times, but she has 2 other 20 somethings living under her roof and they can't even take care of themselves yet alone there own child. My sister has told her theropist about this and a plan is in motion about that.

I have told my sister more then once she needs to end it, to just get it done and over with and call it quits, go to a lawyer and file the papers and get a divorce, things aren't getting any better. I know If I had way of being there I would start a war, I would tell the 2 20 somethings that there is more to life then playing video games, there is a house to be run, things need fixed and people that have feelings, get off your lazy back sides and do something. Just once in my life I would like more then anything to see her happy for a whole week, month or year!! these 2 20 somethings don't offer a finger, they are expected to be asked to do something and only then they have t osit around some more and think things out, like what is there to think about, hello!!!!!

Why do we treat others so bad, even in our own homes, Is it some kind of power trip that makes them feel higher then thou, or is it just plan Ignorance?? Well with the 2 20 somethings in my sisters case I'm leaning towards Ignorance. Grow up 20 somethings, open your eyes and your hearts, look what your doing to the family as well as my sister, she's hurting!!!